Right now, is just evening, when dim teahouse, that man sit in me is opposite. As current shed lights just quiet quiet oblique shine when he the lean face that grows a beard goes up. He wants to say that self and mother are not general to concern. How to aren't you general? Liking write rich I have come right off energy, as if the giraffe of elongation neck, under 4, seek delicious tender leaf. I have moved chair there toward him one moves , hear him to say carefully that go down.
That man say seriously: " if station when the stand of third party, perhaps, I can support the behaviour rule of mother without any hesitation. However, the painful experience that generation another generation of Chinese nation lasts continuously tells me, I must select another road. That is said, I must change me thoroughly and the relation of mother. It is so to have only, I think that our nation just has prosperous hope. "
" how this words understand?
It is that and male to reply: " have such choice, we will have the conscience of enough strength and mass to root out the cause attached with us: Collective is unconscious. It is total each acting person to claim 'Ji Ti Wu Yi Shi' revenge generation with the artificial self of next generation the object of person - - Xuan leak the misfortune that had encountered by oneself. This behavior may understand is is the evil of a kind of collective. Claiming 'Ji Ti De E' just is when family inequality the most typical demonstration that gets in education. For example, in many years, daughter-in-law boils old woman , has summarized the experience of our national all pains of 'Ji Ti De E' livelily. "
I can't help to chip in to say: " person says that mother
Luckily that man have no the life shape of the least bit to print carve on face, he replies: " mother love is rich and big really , is meticulous, may be just this kind of rich big love have been hit privately owned brand. This has to let me express that have no the regret let. I feel in the world all mother should have no worry land self-examination self, examine the conscience: Am I really the best mother on world? Actually, does mother love use to be able to ask for a investment returns perfectly justifiablely in the future? Family relation except establishment is having no other place on obedient foundation may speech? 'obedience' that Chinese most highlies praise is what meaning? As soon as analyzing , it is the generation unequal treaty that person asks for for the person of next generation. I think , I say the purpose of these above words is want with own all consciences, have mother to whole society to send sincere request: You should come to understand! Mother great should embody on intelligent comprehensibility, there is this only, then can cast the love that makes unselfishness. This kind of love is just the long-range future of our nation. "
I lift beginning , hope the face of that man, at heart some do not understand. Hesitation in, do not know should ask what had better to. Think that it is general that he says self and mother just now to concern , I grab theme tightly , ask: " so your and your mother is what relation? "
The not false thinking of that man land say: " friend relation. Repetition is a time of: I alter mother son relation, is friend relation. That is under the equal mother son relation of blood relationship friend relation. I say more than one time for my mother: I no longer obedience you, but I can understand you , help you, sympathy you past all unfortunate experiences. I will remember firmly that you bring up me , let me grow up , do not be easy really. When remember at the same time, I will become calm slowly. Have this calm when, I can hold own mood , and can handle me conscientiously with the contradiction that may appear between mother. Additionally, I can still look after the daily life of mother with positive attitude. My behaviour principle is not complex: I should be decided for personal marriage problem and the pursuit of life independently by me. Mother, you may stand to give view on the stand of friend , and put forward different view for my life and life quality , but must not interfere my life sight and, with life, watch that copy of habits brought up. Namely, mother, you may do any matter, for example some daily minor matters, you so as decide , but on my and my behaviour rule of individual, you cannot impose me: Should do what and not this dry what. Namely, you should not override on my autonomous right. "
That is male to have had a tea, sound some Qiang Keng, say: " have only is so, we then can finish the evil of a kind of collective. Does dark star person know? After I establish a kind of new relation with my mother, my life theory has occured earth-shaking change at the same time. That is said, when I, as a person, see mother , instead of conform to simplicity single mother angle leaves. Now, I right off heart clear eye has lit. This kind of feeling as if the young hawk who walks out of cave for the first time , station when high cliff, scaning widely hope that is square: The white cloud of blue sky and the spring wave of open country are pleasant to ripple , world is so and marvelous. Our mood is beautiful, that is because: We are the persons of two independences, equality is respected mutually, go to old. "
" is interesting! " I say: " however,
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