2008年3月13日星期四

Because make friend she should be not this to return countryside native land

Old public relative lives in Hebei province countryside. The daughter of 2 spouses persons is 20 years old. It is good that daughter studies calculate, examine into a local technical school , recommend after graduating by school that a company of Beijing works. She is rather satisfactory for this work, having done have two years. Girl has gone to the age of love, she has delivered a boy friend in Beijing.

This day evening, we receive the telephone

Have arrived my

Have gone to Beijing after know that the boy friend of girl has borrowed the first money more than 4000 from her, always have no return? They think that during making friend, husband's side should spend money to the bride's side, and when boy borrows money, is still the lie fabricated , so, they think that this boy does not deserve to be trusted. Though husband's side after father knows already return money, but they also do not allow daughter to be contacting with with boy flatly. Is afraid of afterwards boy when come to entangle own daughter , 2 spouses ones let child to resign work resolutely resolutely, go home together with them. Because day, can not go late temporarily , go to my home to seek accommodation.

Have heard them state , see the expression that girl does not be willing very much. I inquire her opinion secretly. She says: " I do not want to resign , also do not want to leave Beijing, but pa mother insists to have me to return , I have no method ". Speak in obvious see the tear that flashes in her eye. Girl is honest and obedient , has to obey the wishes of parents.

I feel that they are the parents of child , may put forward own opinion to the friend that child delivers. But having no necessity because this matter calls child, resign to go home. So, have hindered the future of child. I have talked about my view, they say: What we now most care about is the safety of child , fear that child is taken in to be deceived. So, must return. After the problem of the future, it is saying. And imagination a lot of do not return the fearful aftermath that may occur.

Can I still say what?

In second day, 3 persons

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